I miss Ringo.
Wednesday, December 29, 2010
Thursday, December 16, 2010
To Appreciate My Blessings
This last month has been a trying time for The Sanders Family. Andrew's father passed away just before Thanksgiving. I could go on and on about how sad this is and how much it hurts, which it does, but I wanted to 'free write' more about a lesson I am learning from this experience.
This trial has helped me see the blessings that surround me, my family, my life, and it has helped me appreciate them more.
Opposition in all things right? We can't know comfort if we don't know hurt. We can't know joy if we don't know sorrow. Knowledge of this doesn't make it easy, but it does help me see and appreciate all that I have in my life. If we don't see the blessings around us, then it will be a very dark sad lonely world.
This is not to say that I am always an optimist. I am not. Loosing my father in law, and seeing my husband and his family with their loss, hurts. There is little to ease the pain. BUT, I am making it a point to be aware of the people that have been placed in my path to help me, and to bless me. I also noticed, while Andrew and I were in Texas, the people in my mother-in-law's life that are blessings to her. I am thankful that she has wonderful angels around her supporting and loving her.
I have a favorite quote that says:
Why is it that it takes something huge to happen for us to notice and/or to appreciate it? I think I know what my New Year's Resolution will be: Take time every day to find and notice the blessings in my life, no matter how small or grand, and appreciate them. And if I already appreciate a specific blessing that I see, then I will appreciate it more than before!
My last sweet memory of Dad was when he sang "Happy Birthday" on the phone to me, and he sang it with all the vigor in his soul!
Hugs and loves to you Papa!
This trial has helped me see the blessings that surround me, my family, my life, and it has helped me appreciate them more.
Opposition in all things right? We can't know comfort if we don't know hurt. We can't know joy if we don't know sorrow. Knowledge of this doesn't make it easy, but it does help me see and appreciate all that I have in my life. If we don't see the blessings around us, then it will be a very dark sad lonely world.
This is not to say that I am always an optimist. I am not. Loosing my father in law, and seeing my husband and his family with their loss, hurts. There is little to ease the pain. BUT, I am making it a point to be aware of the people that have been placed in my path to help me, and to bless me. I also noticed, while Andrew and I were in Texas, the people in my mother-in-law's life that are blessings to her. I am thankful that she has wonderful angels around her supporting and loving her.
I have a favorite quote that says:
“When something does not insist on being noticed, when we aren't grabbed by the collar or struck on the skull by a presence or an event, we take for granted the very things that most deserve our gratitude”
Why is it that it takes something huge to happen for us to notice and/or to appreciate it? I think I know what my New Year's Resolution will be: Take time every day to find and notice the blessings in my life, no matter how small or grand, and appreciate them. And if I already appreciate a specific blessing that I see, then I will appreciate it more than before!
"Whatever fills your heart with gladness is a good thing. Let yourself be filled. There is much joy and beauty in the world if you only open yourself to it."
My last sweet memory of Dad was when he sang "Happy Birthday" on the phone to me, and he sang it with all the vigor in his soul!
Hugs and loves to you Papa!
Saturday, December 11, 2010
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